Oh, wow! I haven't posted since before Thanksgiving, I believe. So much has happened. BM is still completely insane. SD is not doing well.
I will try to keep this short and to the point. Back in Nov or Oct. BM was told by the judge to be good for 18 months(She assaulted her boyfriend and ran over his dog, assualted a police officer and resisted arrest.) She got off. The judge told her she has to stay out of trouble for 18 months.
Anyway, BM has a new BF and SD9 says that he's nice so thats a plus. BM moved back in with her parents after she got rid of the other BF and now BM and SD are sleeping together. So now when SD comes over to our house, she has trouble sleeping alone and she is always asking if BD5 can sleep with her. I don't mind this on Fri or Sat nights, but not every time. I'm not sure what to do. SD says she scared or lonely or she hears noises. Any excuse to not sleep in her own bed. She is not doing well in school. Her report card is better than the last (Due to DH's interference on his mid week visits) SD got into a fight with a boy, then recently she was caught stealing crap out of another kids backpack. BM did nothing to SD for her behavior. SD is now allowed to make her own decisions, according to BM. Oh, and BM also declined a conference with SD's teacher. Nice. Great parenting BM.
BM has been allowing SD to pick and choose the weekends she wants to see DH. This is not going to fly. They have a Parenting Plan for this. BM said that SD is a "big girl who can make her own decisions" Um, no she isn't. She got into a fight and stole something, this is not good decisions.
DH initiated Mediation (required before going in front of a judge.) BM ignored their requests for mediatation. So, now DH can go to court for contempt and a custody modification.
BM had a job for about a week, then she got ill after two days of working and then she couldn't handle the long drive. Yeah right. BM is just a lazy bitch.

Ugghhhh...Thats all I'm going to add for now, thank you for listening.