All the kids are here, mine SO's and SO's stepdaughter even came (he's raised her since she was a baby she's 10) he figured she came for presents he hadn't bought her anything since she hasn't spoke to him in months, but he explained why and she was understanding! My daughter even gave her one of her gently used barbies as a gift. My SO is so happy to have them here and his sd told him she was sorry she hadn't visited or talked to him she was afraid and shy to meet me. Then she came out and told me "I'm really glad I came you and your kids are really nice if its ok with my mom can I spend the night with my brother and sister here tonight?" So my daughter found her some jammies she can use. Tiny house 5 kids 2 adults a dog 2 cats lots of toys but smiles all around. BM was furious when she randomly showed up and we weren't here (hadn't heard from her on a time we asked and we don't revolve around her) she's ticked her oldest wants to stay with her stepdad and brother and sister. I listened to her little sis tell her "if you pout here you go to time out, and we don't talk back here or we go to time out, but its fun here" (I've heard stories of the oldest being quite mouthy to her mom but she's been a polite normal little girl so far). I'm really loving this Christmas!