All the kids (mine and SO's) wished me happy mother's day upon me waking. My ds with lots of SO's help made me yummy quiche and bacon for breakfast. Yay! DD had to work, and BM actually came and got her kids 45 min late but she got them, fed them 2nd breakfast apparently, and took them to the park. Brought them back 4 hours early, in tears because she told them she had to bring them back because she "has things to do" and their older half sister told them she gets to do more fun things when they aren't there.
So's ds came in first ran and climbed in my lap (he's never done this) and started bawling that his mom doesn't want him anymore! Ugh he's only 6 and not a 6 year old that understands "I have things to do" but hears "I have things to do and don't ant you with when I do them, and though we all know you don't have to go back till bedtime, I'm getting rid of you now"
His dd is in the car having a fit refusing to get out of the car so BM can't leave, while BM tells her to get out she's "got things to do and I have to give you back to dad." and "Daddy says I have to leave you here I'm so so sorry but I have to."
Dude your destroying your kids! So inside they finally get I tell SO what his son said with him snuggled in my arms (these kids are so getting hugged to death tonight) and we talk to them about them "misunderstanding" what BM meant (How else were we supposed to make them feel better?) That yes she had things to do, but she wasn't saying she didn't want them just that she needed to bring them early and that happens and it's okay because we still have lots of fun things to do here and dinner will be ready soon (yay for plenty of food cooked) and got them all calmed down and they both snuggled me and told me they loved me and happy mother's day again.
Then went outside to play.
I wanted to go hunt that bitch down
I don't want her to ever get those kids on SO's time again she always makes them cry especially if her bf is with to look like moty
I want to punch her in the face
SO totally told the kids he loved them so much it didn't matter what their mom says.
I'm glad they told her they drew me pictures last night for mother's day, because I'm a good mommy to my kids, and a good "mom like person to them " (SO's dd totally said that because I always say I'm not their mom, just a mom type person lol)
Now I have to deal with my SM, my dad expects me to wish a woman who never treated me like a kid, and never acted like a parent other than beating me and never turned into a decent person till I was 30 a happy mother's day. I don't want to, but I don't want to piss her off and have it taken out on my dad which she will.