I have saved it all, problem is that when confronted she claims that he is SOOOO upset by me that he just tells her this stuff, then he tells me that she drills him, then later he backtracks and says or no I didn't mean that. He is so caught in the middle and sometimes i don't knowwhat to believe because she recently tried to convince him that we got divorced his life would be better so he activitely all summer long campained for his dad to leave me. He's 8 tears old for pete's sake, when we went to court with her last year she conviince everyone she was this stellar poor mother who counldn't afford more tahn a trailer home, yet she never divulged all the cash jobs she does or the fact that she get almost 900 CAD a month in governtment tax free support for their youngest with Down's syndrome, made him look really bad beecause she never shares info about dr or school appointments with him then claims he just wasn't interested. Argghhhh!!!!!!! It just makes me so mad becaus none of this is even about the kids and me repalacing her to them, it's about the fat that she was adopted and told by parents who never felt secure in her love because of that fact that she was a princess and the world should worship at ther feet, and he did for a long time, even after she kicked him and because she was cheating on him with his friend. Then he met me realized what ahealthy relationship was all about and has moved on. She can't stand that he doesn't want her any more that he prefers me. (She is younger than I am but doesn't look it) It is so sick she just got married in June if I were that guy I would run far away, why would you want to be with someone sho still has that much feeling for an ex? Doesn't help that she is overweight, and I am not.
She smokes ont he hoiuse with a child with a heart condition, she drinks all, the time, my ss know all the different brands of rum out there and was allowed to tend bar at their backyard wedding. remember he's 8. BM was with one guy hanging all over him at ss christmas concert on Dec 20 then March 1 we find out a different guy moved in 2 weeks prior to that and that they are getting married. That was guy # 8 she had brought into the home with the kids since that split in 2004 but none of this means anything in court according to his lawyer, oh yeah did I mention that she has driven drunk with the kids in the car and cheated on her taxes last year ( invented receipts for childcare and got her friends to sign off that they had babysat for her, was awarded lump sum of 5000CAD then turned around and claimed 2000cad in unreimbursed childcare onher 2006 filing. My husband who had paid this money not her couldn't claim it because she already had but she didn't pay it he did. All she wants is money, the kids are always in daycare or at babysiotters that we pay for even though she no longer works she doesn't need to the gvernment and bd pay her way. Now bm and n ew hasband hav emoved to small towen without our approval 11/2 hrs away and neither one has a job they just live off of suppport bd pays. Nice for them She doesn't really want the kids but she won't let us hav ethem either, some day something will happen because there is not proper supervision there but we can't do anything about it until it ddoes because we don't have proof except what we see and that won't stand up incourt!!!@!!!!!!

My children are older 21, 17 and 14 and they have learned a valuable lesson from this, be careful who you have kids with because you are stuck with that person for life!!!!!!