SKids have been little butts since BM took DH to court. Where it all started. My DH was the one who could say where the kids lived all that stuff. Well during the summer BM didn't like that DH could do that anymore so during her time with kids got them all ready for court scared the kids and afraid to come to their dads house. BM was telling the girls to get ready to go talk to the judge and tell him you want to live with me not your dad, so my DH didn't want the girls to have to go though all that BS so he gave in.

I dont know what to do. I have told you before that my skids have lied about me lied to me about other people and then told me they didnt like me never had and never will. :? With all that I havent opened my pocket book to them dont take them to do fun stuff, just thought if you dont like me why the HELL am I going to spend MY money on your butts. Me and my DH have talked before about me not wanting to do a whole lot with them cause of the actions that they have had, he agreed which was a shock those are his little girls!

I want to ask how you can get BM to agree to things she is already doing in writing so we can get it put in the papers? For almost a year now she has meet up almost half way when we get and take back the skids. This is one thing she holds over my DH head if she doesn't like something he does then fine you come all the way so now the drive goes from a 2hrs and 15mmin to 4 1/2hrs it sucks! And taxes before they even got a divorce or papers on the girls as long as one of them paid child support to the other one they would split the girls on taxes. That way they could both have one on taxes.

So for those of you who read my post about me and my hubby going to Vegas then we find out BM is going too. Our trip was great beautiful