My SS11 normally comes to the house every other weekend but because of corona he hasn't, just trying to keep him in one place with no exposure. Every weekend he's supposed to be here since COVID-19 has happened he doesn't want to come anymore(because he's afraid he'll get the virus?). Is it awful that I take a sigh of relief every time he says he doesn't want to come? I try to like him but he's extremely rude to his dad(rarely ever gets punished for slamming doors, yelling, temper tantrums, even saw him slap his grandma once AND NO ONE SAID ANYTHING, while my Jaw is on the floor.) every time my boyfriend tries to call and check on him he's extremely rude and hurried to get off the phone. VERY ungrateful I invited them all (my bf, ss11 and sd5) to my family's Christmas. My grandma got both kids gifts even tho she had only met them once and he pouted the WHOLE WAY HOME because she gave him books about dinosaurs and insects. Every part of him makes me cringe and I think it's odd that when we did have him regularly him and his sister would sleep in the same bed with him only wearing underwear and sometimes she would only wear panties("because they get hot") even tho they have separate bedrooms. Last time he was here he didn't want to sleep with her but every time before that they would.(just weird to me, I was always taught not to sleep with opposite sex no matter-family or not)(idk maybe my family is just weird) I'm just so glad I don't have to deal with him during quarantine and glad I can get it off my chest somewhere.