All  SD14 had to do to trigger the regression of DH was tell BM "I'm sad, I miss my dad" . This then trigger a call from BM to DH and BM asked "are you not contacting SD, she is sad because of you." And the regression starts and I am literally sick because of it! DH was and always is the one who initiates phone calls and text messages, he always ask for SD in his weekends . SD didn't have to do anything but say those words and DH is right back to the baby talk, kissy face and heart emojis, calling daily and it's beyond annoying . I told DH to call SD to talk about this "game" ( yes it is a game she plays) because it seemed to me like SD just missed being chased. DH backed out of the daily texts and calls after she would not reply from daily to 3 times a week and the baby talk stopped but here we are!!! I need to have a talk with him about not allowing BM to always be in the middle of him and SD because SD gets to says all these things but never addresses them with DH, BM is her mouth piece and it needs to stop! Also if SD14 feels she is grow enough for SKiMs, lulullemon , Sephora make up and wants to be seen as older then DH needs to treat her as such! She can't really expect DH to treat her as if she's still 10 yet want everyone else to treat her as is she is 16 or 17. It always pisses me off because DH is constantly on my son who is 12 to "have more initiative " and to be more responsible and take accountability yet DH does not expect the same from SD who is older . I'm just really bothered today from the amount of ass kissing in just a short amount of time