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It's Thirsty Thursday Who's up for a drink?

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Submitted by justanothergurlNJ on Thu, 08/16/2012 - 9:57am

So things have been serious around here lots going on with BM’s and SKIDS. So I was thinking some drinks, some food and some fun venting!

Here is my vent for the day!

BM text BF asking if he could watch the boys Thursday and Friday, because she can’t take any more days off. Another blog another day. BF tells her I can’t Thursday I have to work, but I can keep them Thursday night and watch them Friday. (side note, if you’ve read any of my previous blogs BM has not spent 1 weekend with the kids since summer started). She proceeds to ask him if he can ask his Mom if she can watch them Thursday, mind you we ALL work. So STUPID BF instead of telling her to ask his Mom herself, he asks his Mom, she says yes, since she off Thursday have he bring them over Wednesday night and she will watch them for her, so BM now has 2 nights off from HER kids. So BF tells her this and she says well I asked your Mom a few weeks ago if she could watch the boys this weekend, (Gee what a surprise since this was been going on for months). BF says to her well what’s more important? Your job or a social life? Ok wait for it! Are you ready for her answer!? YEA I GUESS YOU’RE RIGHT I’LL HAVE TO TAKE ONE FOR THE TEAM!
OMFG, you consider spending the weekend with your kids taking one for the team. You get MOTY award. She works all week, gets home, feeds them, baths them and puts them to bed. She gets 2 weekends a month off when we have the boys the other 2 they are dumped off on BFS Mom, so you spend NO real time with your kids. Take one for the team SMFH priceless!

I will have a Loopy Lemonade, make it a double shot of the Loppy!!

Any requests for Music, what do you feel like listening to.

How about Pink Get this Party started!

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Submitted by tanyax120 on Thu, 08/16/2012 - 10:24am

Wow that sounds absolutely ridiculous! It drives me crazy when a parent refuses to act like a parent. Allow me to share my story with you, the day I met BM was about a few months ago. Dh and I went to get sd12 and her cousin 9 or 10. We pull up and bm's youngest 3 or4 daughter was outside playing near the street completely unsupervised! It would be completely different if it was a quite street but its not and its also in the ghetto! Dh and I get out of the car and BM comes out shakes my hand and says welcome to the family! Oh btw you just missed my parole officer she/he was dying to meet you! Says that to my DH. Immediately I'm disgusted by this person. Then the conversation turns to me and she says, Oh I'm so glad he has met a good girl for once! I was obviously confused by this bc I was unaware that she knew about my dh's dating history. That made me wonder how close they are. Since that trip my DH has been having "secret" conversations with BM. He goes and hides to talk to her, when before that trip he would talk to her in front of me. Sketchy... So now sd has been here for almost a week and I have been trying to get dh to spend alone time with her. I'll go in the bedroom and read then he follows me and I'm.like you need to go spend time with that girl! She is here for you not for me. Don't you think she is getting tired of having me tag along all the time?? Go out there! So he storms out of the room, like its a freaking chore to spend time with his own kid! So the other day I went to my friends house for an archer marathon. Love that show, and I needed some adult time and figure dh and sd could hang out without evil stepmommy around. I texted him to see if they had tried the ice cream sandwiches I made and asked how their evening was going. Family guy was my response.... So I assumed they were watching family guy. When I.got home an hour later he was half way through a movie in the bedroom! He didn't even spend anytime with her! This is beginning to drive me nuts. Bm doesn't appear to be very involved in her life and when she is here I am the only one paying any attention to her and am getting shut out. I'm seriously at my wits end with all this!

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Submitted by tanyax120 on Thu, 08/16/2012 - 10:31am

Oh wait I should give some background on BM. She met my DH 12 years ago and got pregnant in two weeks. He married her and divorced after a year, she got into meth, had a meth lab at one point and was arrested while sd was in her custody. Bm went to rehab and jail and dh had sd for 2 years, bm got out wanted to see her daughter last august and never gave.her back. Real class act.

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Submitted by Unfreakingreal on Thu, 08/16/2012 - 11:55am

BM on my end does the same thing. We get Sd EOW Friday to Sunday. And on the weekend she's not with us she's at my MILs house. AND the ENTIRE summer, she is also at MILs house because BM is too lazy to sign her up for any summer camps. Patron on the rocks with Lemon please.

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Submitted by justanothergurlNJ on Thu, 08/16/2012 - 12:08pm

GRRRR why do these woman have babies. My skids are small too and all they want is some love and attention. Maybe it bothers me more since my kids are older and don't really hang out with me anymore they have friends and lives. I miss the days when they were small and cuddly.

Round of Patron on me. SHOTS for everyone!