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10 things I hate about today

June's picture

1.) I feel like I spend so much fricken time working on computer related topics for SS15 when he comes over. Last weekend I spent hours and hours trying to fix some stupid error on i tunes for him. The site was down and finally I got it fixed but it look hours and hours of my time. Then he wanted to hook some game system up to his TV but brought the wong cables over and so I had to hunt for the oorrect cables and hook everything up.. then he wanted our gammming speakers hooked up. Today the game stop app wasnt working on my phone and I had to redeem his dumb power up points..took me 45 min to fix that. Then he goes to store and gets a new game system and starts asking me every techniqal question about the system.. WHAT AM I THE FRICKEN HOUSE HOLD IT DEPARTMENT??!!

2.)When were all in the store walking, he walks so close to me all the time that he pratically takes my flip flop off by steping on it. I keep telling him to give me space but he walks on top of me and i cant even turn a corner without him bumping into me.

3.) I went out of my way to do several things to give him a discount on this game system he wanted and DH drove the car to the store.. who do you think gets the thank you? hint: NOT ME.

4.) He woke up so fricken early today - our only day to sleep in- and started banging doors and everything so of course we woke up too

5.)He keeps thanking his Dad for eveything. For stupid things. Its annoying. I wouldnt be shocked if he said thank you Dad for feeding me food which in turn allowd me to take a shit, thanks for the shit. I mean manors are great but saying something too much looses its effectiveness

6.) He wont go into another room and do something. We have computers, multiple TV's whatever you name it.. and he insist on sitting in the same room with us either stairing at us in silence or asking all kinds of questions about what were watching.. whos that guy? why did he go over there? I dont understand why he would do that? Who is that actor? What else are they in? SHUT. UP.

7.)He has a bad habit today of listening to every conversation DH & I have and butting in. Sometimes I talk a little lower so he wont hear something and he leans his head in and says oh, I didnt hear what you said, is everything ok? He also likes to take his dad's side on everything and stick up for him like he cant talk on his own.

8.) I have been doing chores all day and running around doing stuff while they (DH & SS15) sit on the couch

9.)I hate that my Sundays are consumed by this

10.) I have yet to do something fun or enjoyable today and by the time SS15 leaves I will be getting ready for work tomorrow.

Thank you, that is all. Just had to vent. Thanks to anyone who actually took the time to read this crap.

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June's picture

Dear Danger Kitty- Thanks for your response. I was just venting, not looking for advice, but thank you anyway. I love my step son, there is nobody else that knows how to do these things for him as far as computer type issues- everyone in his house and here are techno-tarts. Its just that ive been spending excessive time with him and you know how when you spend too much time with someone, they get annoying.. everything they do is annoying.. well thats the point im at right now. My husband works all the time and when he is home on the weekends, we have SS. we are a family and im not going to just make plans and take off to avoid my step son and in turn miss spending time with my hubby too. I get what your saying, and thank you. Really thou I was just venting. Thanks.

amackeral's picture

Ugh, I go through #7 ALL the time with SS18... Drives.Me.Crazy! I've told him so many times "this conversation is between your dad and I, if I wanted you involved in it, I would have asked for your input".