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Journey0601's picture

a good friend got engaged last night.... she is divorced with one 6yo boy (has majority custody... but has a good relationship with her cheating ex and he is a good dad)  she met her fiancé 6 months ago.... he has 50/50 of his 3 kids... aged 5-16....the ex wife is apparently a nightmare...

her fiancé is really great.... but OMG! When she said she was engaged I was like ahh! She has no idea what she is in for! She is such an amazing woman who has had a lot of crap happen in her life... I hope things workout okay for her!!

 

 

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Journey0601's picture

I thought about telling her about this place already...

but I will wait!

Ispofacto's picture

The youngest kid is too young, she has too many bad years ahead of her, compounded by a psycho BM.  I got in when Killjoy14 was five and it changed me.  That poor woman...

 

Journey0601's picture

she thinks it’s great! Because he gets along with her son so well.... the middle one is an 8yo girl and I am like nooo! I met SD at 8!!

FMSL's picture

I've been in this shit for over 10 years.  SD15 was only 5 when I married DH.  Being a SM for that long has changed me as a person for the worse.  I have anxiety, I'm jaded, I've gained weight, I'm always on edge.  I feel so bad for anyone who is just starting the road through Step-Hell...

Journey0601's picture

hope it’s different for her! But right now they are in honeymoon bliss!  Scary times ahead