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Submitted by JenMarie279 on Thu, 05/31/2012 - 4:19pm

Okay, so here I am...

I absolutely adore being a mother. My son is funny, creative, smart, and most importantly, respectful.
That being said, I hate nothing more than being a step-mom. My husband's children and the most disrespectful human beings that I have ever met.

I love him, but it is not good for our relationship. We only get them every other weekened, so I should not complain, but trust me, those weekends are pure hell for me. The days leading up to the weekend, too. I have anxiety and stress out the ass before they come.

I just cannot stand them. Their mother, too. A complete psycho who totally enables their behavior. Help.

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Submitted by oncechoosetosmile on Fri, 06/01/2012 - 4:34am

Hello, Smile you must make plans for yourself and your boy on those weekends if those children are not respectful.YOu don't need to be around them unless your SO really puts them into their place and you work together as a team.If he just leans back and expects you to 'cope" with what you get EOWE make your own plans and let him do the work with his children, meals, entertainment etc.If he asks why tell him that you feel they dont respect you and unless their behaviour towards you changes you will not hang around so much with them when they are there.
Btw, yes, you are lucky that they are only there EOWE:)