No more MOTY
Short backstory: BM was planning on moving away and leaving SD 100% with DH when I first met him. Wanted to move to where her boyfriend was 4 hours away. Said BF broke up with her and she ended up staying here. Her behavior completely changes depending on who she is dating or wants to be dating.
Her fiance she had been living with finally moved out, months after it had appeared they had broken up. Out of the apartment that he had lived in since his son was born and BM had moved into years later - knowing her I guarantee she wouldn't leave. Now when BM was dating this guy, she was full on MOTY and kept asking to have SD extra days fir activities and blah blah. Which was great. The second this guy moved out she canceled all the extra days she was going to have her for this summer and is back to not wanting her a minute over exactly 50/50.
I guess the extra SD free days are over:(
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Yes, they are
What a POS. I feel for you and SD. I hope SD isnt old enough to figure it out.
SD thinks BM is the greatest
SD thinks BM is the greatest person in the entire world so idk. All of the discussions with BM regarding schedule are over text so I doubt she would realize.
Of course
I forgot, BMs are always the best! It's so sad that the kids hold on to that image so fiercely. I've seen it, too. How old is SD?
About to turn 9. 100% clone
About to turn 9. 100% clone of her mom.
Not good
You can only hope she deviates from being a clone but probably not. Sigh. And, her teenage years are ahead.
Right. Cant tell you how many
Right. Cant tell you how many times I've been told that's going to be rough
Our bms are opposites. She is
Our bms are opposites. She is MOTY when she's in a new relationship but she's high conflict and causes more problems when she's single and dating (because she's unhappy with her life and SS is another reminder of her failures). She doesn't give a second more with SS, she just leaves him with a babysitter instead.