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We are leaving on vacation in just a few hours - after I get off work. I like the house to be clean so there's no mess waiting for us when we get home. DH told me not to worry, he would do the last few things while I work. I work from home but it's very hard to get anything done.
Of course, this morning things are totally different. He told me I need counseling because I want the house clean. I am not obsessive about it, just like it to be nice! He then proceeded to tell SKID12 (who has done nothing for days) that he better ask me what needs to be done in his bathroom because I said he wasn't cleaning it right. Seriously?? We all know how a clean bathroom looks! I am so mad that he would say that. I can't quite find the words but it just feels like the two of them against me all the time. DH won't make SS do anything - says it's just easier to do it himself. Which usually translates to me doing it!
I think since wanting a clean house means I need counseling, maybe I should just stop cleaning. I'll pick up after myself, do my own laundry and let them see what happens... I know, I know - it sounds immature just typing it but I'm just so frustated.