Iwisallowed's Blog
Divorcing...staying together...maybe
This is something that I had needed to get off of my chest for a a couple years now. Please try not to judge...I spent 8 years in an abusive relationship and moved to a state when I was 23 where I have zero family.
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How to deal with daddy guilt issues?
How do you all deal with extreme daddy guild issues? My DH basically has a break down and gets extremely upset/mad when I mention issues with his kids. One time I tried to make house rules and he freaked out because he said I was talking bad about them because they need rules...a million more things like this.
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Privacy...having one hell of a time
The SKIDS came over this weekend. It was a disaster...yet again. again, I am taking one post at a time.
This time the issue is PRIVACY. My husband has 5 children (9 yrs old and under) who are all born within 5 years with the youngest two being twins that are 5.
I tend to try to at least "hide out" in my room because the children are feral. They CONSTANTLY ask me where there dad is. Which is fine, except its in rotation...which 5 of them. I finally decided to just stop responding.
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Always the same clothes
I don't know why but skids BM always sends them here with clothes.. they the clothes are raggity and small for their size. He pays her 3k in child support and medical premium and 75% medical bills...bm takes them on trips...is remarried.... I guess if it was me I wouldn't send clothes like that but then I have decided that maybe she is doing it on purpose so that they look poor and raggity when we have them? I'm tired to buying all of them clothes all of the time.
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Marriage and income.
I make less than half my husband's income (40k vs 92k). He pays 35k a year in support (not including thousands extra in medical bills he pays 75%).
How should we split finances? Right now we are only splitting housing. Been married 3 years. I'm starting to feel like he should be contributing more.
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Mother's day and slightly disappointed
My partner gave me flowers for mom dad and had my son who lives with us give them to me. Cute. But then throughout the rest of the day, he had nothing planned. My son wanted to go hiking so we headed to do that but hadn't had lunch yet. I asked where we are going to eat... he said whatever. Everything is still closed so I get we can go out somewhere fancy and sit down. I suggested maybe we go to grocery store and get food for a picnic. He didn't want to do that we just went to Wendy's.
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