Im proud of myself!
Well today I got up because I had to work I went and woke up my son and told him to get dressed so that he can go with me. BF noticed that my son was getting dressed and asked me why. i told him hes going to work with me it will be easier for you just with your daughter. His response was you gotta be fucking kidding me. So i continued to get dressed and when i was ready to go i asked him if he was gonna take me to work and he said no take the car... So i asked him what are you going to eat here all day(we havent went food shopping)he says dont worry about it go to work. So now he is home with darling SD and doesnt have to worry about my son. And i know hes going to take a nice little walk with SD to mcdonalds like we got money to spend.... Did I do the right thing?
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Given the situation, you did the only thing you could do
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
Since BF made it clear to you that your son is such a burden if he watches him, what else could you do? Let 'em have his time off w/his D-just make sure it works the other way, too. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander!
Yeah but I brought my son to
Yeah but I brought my son to work to cause him less headache and he ends up with his niece and nephew. HOW THE HELL?? Was it so his princess DI doesnt be bored alone?? OMG IM SO MAD!!!
There ya go. The reason I did not remarry until my
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
The very reason I did not remarry until my son was grown. I was damned if he was going to be treated as substandard by any man.
Just be grateful you've had the foresite not go marry your BF. Gives you an opportunity to see if he's willing to change, witness the changed behaviour, before you marry the man. If he cannot put your son on equal footing with his D, leave 'im. Much easier to do if you're not married.
I would
cut and run. Don't put your child thru this. Take care of yourself and your son.
Married the man and now I feel guilty for my son's sake
I noticed you say boyfriend - my H treats my son fine but SD is a nightmare to my son - she is 13 and my son is 12. Now I have to live with this horrible guilt that I brought this evil SD into my son's life - my son doesn't even want to come home with me because of SD - thank god we only have her EOW but my son and her go to school together. If he is not treating your child righ get the he!! away from him now
Adding to mustang1's rules...
Too add to Mustang1's rules
Rule #5...I am expected to perform all the parental responsibilities but have no parental authority over his little "princess"
In a perfect world their would be retroactive abortion capabilities. ~ disgusted