A few months ago we told DS and OSS if they had trouble finding jobs this summer they we would help them out financially a bit more this coming school year. 

We were talking last night and DH said he has no problem helping out DS and just sending him money/cash but that there's no way he's giving OSS cash, that he'd only pay for any extras where he can pay directly to someone else or in a way OSS can't get cash from it or barter using it. It wasn't me trying to get him to agree; he said it.

Wow folks. Wow.