I ran into someone's evil skid this morning!!
First I want to start off by saying in regards to everything that happened yesterday: DH is a fucktard and will never see my point of view. I have decided to pretend SD16 does not exist. I will not be bothered by the shit she does and gets away with. Its not healthy for me to get so upset and I don't like her coming between us. We NEVER fight about anything except for her. So she is dead to me!
So this morning I had to go to the car dealer. I am standing waiting and the receptionist is a young girl in her early 20's maybe and she is talking to a woman that works there. I am listening to her conversation because she starts in about her SM.
Skid: I was so happy. I made it so that my mom and dad were in the picture with me together as a family like we used to be (she is talking about some event but I missed what it was)
Worker: Oh why is that a big deal?
Skid: Yes it is, my parents have been divorced for 7 years and my father has been remarried for 7 years.
Worker: Oh then he was cheating!
Skid: Well no they were seperated for 3 years before the divorce but she swooped in and stole him from us! Then she got pregnant right away!!
Worker: Oh well it sounds like he didn't even know her when your parents seperated.
Skid: Well either way she is so evil (yes she used the word evil) and she has split my family apart. Its not fair, me and my sisters hate her so much and they have a 6 yr old daughter together. My parents divorce was final in May and they got married in September. That hurt all of us.
Then she went on and on and on about how much she hates her and how unfair it is and she just wants to be a family again. She is so hurt that he did that to them. The co worker kept trying to change the subject but she just wanted to keep talking about her evil stepmother!!
Ugh! I so wanted to walk over to her and be like I'm an evil stepmother also!!
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You should have asked to test
You should have asked to test drive a vehicle right over her dumb ass.
I'm never quick enough to
I'm never quick enough to think of these things but wouldn't it have been great to say to Miss Thang:
"Someone needs to drive one of these cars over your dumb ass." Good idea Shaman
Why does anyone think they have a right to tell anyone else who to live with, have sex with, love, etc? That is such a personal decision.
That is really so sad. On so
That is really so sad. On so many levels. That an adult woman holds on to such hate and negativity and does not even understand how it makes her sound to others-it does sound as if the coworker understood that she was a nutbag.
Figures. I really think that
Figures. I really think that customer service has really gone downhill. Why wouldn't someone think that maybe they might be offending someone else by talking like that?
I mean, would she have talked in the same way about someone who was of a different race...or different sexual preference? Stepmothers are the last accepted prejudice.
Someone has failed to set
Someone has failed to set boundaries with this little princess. She still thinks she runs her parents' life.
smart move with SD16, and as
smart move with SD16, and as far as this girl is concerned she needs to grow up. At this age and as an adult she needs to understand that shit happens and people move in. Parents who arent happy split ahd their children grow up and start their own relationships, we dont get to choose their partners and they certainly dont get to choose ours.
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Wow!! Its nutso that some of
Wow!! Its nutso that some of these skids even as Adults **think** that they have the right or power to dictate how things **ought** to be!!! She talks about how the SM "took her Dad Awayfrom them". Huh?! Sounds like no matter how long her parents had been split up- no matter who this poor SM was gonna be viewed as "the other woman" no matter what- even tho she obviously had nothing to do with her bio parents split & divorce.
Id suspect her bio mom of PAS. This woman views her Stepmom in a very unhealthy way, almost like her as a kid was cheated on by her dad. Not sure if im getting that out quite right.
Lately Ive been reading books & articles and have read alot about this weird dynamic. Letters Ive read from Stepkids to their biodad where the kids seem to almost always declare the same kind of things. Things like "she (SM) took him from us" even tho their dad met their stepmom years After their Divorce from BM!!!!!
Im a BM & SM. My parents Also divorced when I was a kid. My Dad had a longtime Girlfriend. I liked & respected her. I never viewed her in any way as "taking my Dad from me"!!!! I dont get it or understand this behaviour!!
Is it a real product of PAS??
I was actually shocked
I was actually shocked standing there listening to her talk!! She was so angry and hated her SM so much and clearly blamed the SM for breaking up her parents when clearly that was not the case. I think she said that he met SM a year after the seperation but she still blamed SM for everything. Crazy!! It has to be coming from her mother.
I didn't hear the rest of the conversation because I had to go into the office but just the look on her face was a little nuts!!
And these messed up people
And these messed up people will have kids and raise THEM to be messed up. And we wonder why the mental health situation is getting out of control....
^^Sounds like stepdevil,
^^Sounds like stepdevil, blaming me for her parents not getting back together. I don't think she blamed me for their breakup, because that happened a year prior to me even meeting DH and he'd dated a couple of other women before me - but she certainly was against us marrying because that meant her mother had no chance!
She had no chance whether I married DH or not!
That's exactly right! The
That's exactly right! The ring isn't what makes him wanna be with you.
Yep! Pathetic.
Yep! Pathetic.
LOVE IT!
LOVE IT!
Lol Lynn!! I was so tempted
Lol Lynn!! I was so tempted to say something. Luckily they whisked me away into the office. Who knows what would have come out of my mouth!! Especially since I was still so heated over everything yesterday with DH and SD!! I was in NO mood this morning and really didn't even want to be at the dealer.
Trust me I was tempted to say
Trust me I was tempted to say something to her!! I was in shock listening to her. I wanted to hear the rest of the story!! I do have to go back next week because I am buying out my lease so they need to appraise it so I am sure I will be seeing her again!!
It shows how deceiving people can be because when I first got there she was talking to someone else and seemed so sweet and she was a very pretty girl. Then the subject changed to SM and she got really ugly!!
I completely agree!! This is
I completely agree!! This is SD16's biggest problem in our house. She is extremely jealous of me, DD11 and BD4. That is why she hates us so much! DH just does not see it because she acts all sweet in front of him. The minute he turns his back her devil horns sprout!!
Stupid bint. So let me get
Stupid bint.
So let me get this right. The girl20 is devastated her parents split up as this caused much pain yet she wants this to happen to her 6 yr old sister?!!
Its about time some of these *kids* realise that actually they are now adults and that means behaving like one, this also means the younger kids take precedence over deluded fantasies and evil plans to annihilate someone's marriage.
Spoilt little shit syndrome. An extremely attractive characteristic in any adult.
I had a similar experience
I had a similar experience once...it was a BM, though, talking about how EVIL her ex's new wife was to her kids. "She expects them to pick up after themselves and if they don't want to eat what she made for dinner she won't make them something they like! She's HORRIBLE to my children and HE lets her get away with it!" I wanted to throw something at her head except I didn't want to be the one asked to leave the restaurant. }:)