So being a mother to 3 children and a SM to 2, I have learned my boundaries as a step-parent. However, my son's SM has NOT! My children BS10 and BD8 are having an event next week at their school and parents have been asked to volunteer to either send in a snack for this day or time during the event. I received an email yesterday from BS dad stating that his SM would be in attendance and that if I planned to volunteer that I should pick a different time than SM is volunteering. (Which is the time BS will be performing in the event) Are you FREAKING serious?!?!