The doorbell rings at 7pm. There stands a mom, and two of dd's classmates. The mom says, "are you ss's mom". I believe I must have had a horrified look on my face and I was like, "uh, no". She then proceeds to tell me that he has been threatening her son Whoi is autistic and is probably the size of a 3rd grader. I am familiar with the family as my dd has had the sister over. I tell her ss hasn't lived here for awhile due to our ownprobs with him and tell her to come in and let me get dh. Dh didn't even want to come upstairs but did. Basically just told her we have minimal contact with ss. She said she was going to contact the principal in the morning and that her son was afraid to come over here and is afraid to go to school.

After she leaves I facebook her and just apologize for ss's actions asi felt she might feel like we were passing the buck and just didn't care. She messages me back and said that ss was texting her dd now- talking crap, but also playing victim about how he's always been picked on so now he picks on others first. This really made me sick as he just continues to justify and excuse his own bad behaviors. Ss has been bullying others since he was a toddler. seriously. ive had complaints from every sitter weve ever had, numerous disciplinary actions all thru elementary, middle, and now high school and of course what ive seen with my own eyes. butbto him he is just some poor pitiful victim. talk about rewriting history. This poor kid is not a troublemaker or aggressive and in fact dh's only comment to me was, "I can't believe he'd even pick on that kid"-as this kid really is just that pitiful.