So many of you know the sordid history with my inlaws, including my sil opening the credit card accounts in dh's name, her arrest, and the mil and fil taking sil's side. This includes my fil leaving my dh a message that he was "a piece of shit". This was back in September. Since that time my dh has talked to fil exactly 0 times. Dh tried to call him in early Nov as we mistakenly got a check in the mail for fil (they have the same name)-dh called left fil a message about having a check for him. Fil never returned his call. Dh called both his brother, then his mother-saying please have dad call and tell me what he would like me to do with his check. Nothing. Finally the next day, my bil calls back and says dad says to leave it in the mailbox-he'll pick it up later. That was that. No thanksgiving call, no xmas call, no birthday wishes last month. No contact whatsoever.

Today I get on facebook and I have access to see fil's account-although he is blocked from all of our accounts-his is set to public so I can see it. He says, "Thinking about someone very special in my life, I miss you son"-so then there is a comment from someone-"where is your son" to which fil replies "I hope hes with his family having a good life". Can I just say, WTF? Has my fil turned into my sil? Twisted facebook comments meant to gain sympathy from others? I guess if he missed my dh so much he could just call him up and apologize for being a total ass his whole life.

Just disgusted. By the way, we found yet another credit card my sil opened last summer. Somehow we missed it on the credit report and didnt know until a few weeks ago when they repeatedly started calling my dh to make payments. He has told them he wants to file fraud 4 different times and they will not believe that he did not open the account. So I'm not sure what the hell we are supposed to do with that?