Omgoodness!!!! BM has gotta be the most dense chick out there!!! She wants to call my DH cause Her DH is outta town & she just cannot seem to know or want to parent her kids (skids) by her lonesome (plus she seems desperately lonely too)!!

Shes been having a hard time lately as her crappy ass so called "parenting" is coming back to bite her square in her ass!!! She has NO rules in her home for the skids & she sure as crap cannot seem to muster up the damn courage to dole out some freakin consequences either!!!

SS14 has been getting in trouble at school lately & is pretty much failing all his classes. Hmmm. What does BM do? Not a damn thing except try to call DH in another state so that He can 'talk to the boys" about her issues with the kids!!! Ummm. Try freakin rollin up your sleeves lady & try ummm...idk.... Parenting them!!!!!! Holy crap lady it aint all that hard!!! They break the rules? Give em a consequence!!!

Sooo.... Heres what her stellar parenting did today:

- she sent DH a text at 2ish today stating that she was giving us a heads up that she caught SS14 going thru the bookbag that SS9s friend who was spending the night- and he STOLE a nerf gun from this 9 yr old kid & evidentally 'hid' it inbetween his mattress & box springs!!!!
Now- neither DH or I would ever let such an offense go!! Its wrong wrong wrong to even get into another persons personal property let alone Steal something thats Not his!!!
Since BM has been semding alot of texts & phone calls this past week (see last nights blog) DH did NOT text or call her back. No response. DH told me he was gonna talk to SS14 about it when he calls at 8pm like always to say goodnight to the skids- and he would have a stern talk with him then.
- BM said in her text that she was "stripping him" of all his luxuries & activities
Due to his bad behaviour & said hes "out of control"

- Then. At 4 pm today she sent DH an email with a link attached & said "what do you think of this place & sending our out of control kid". The link was for a bootcamp for "high risk" teens who had become beligerant & out of control. It was for One weekend & costs almost $500.
DH & I watched their video & read about them. Interesting stuff really. But. DH feels what the kid really needs is PARENTING!!! Rules, consequences & how about a tutor to help him with his grades & such. But. BM doesnt WANT to take the darn time to actually parent him which is obvious because...
- DH received his nightly phone call with the skids shortly before 8pm tonite. SS14 called & talked to DH first. He sternly asked SS why he was stealing stuff from much younger kids & gave him crap for it (rightfully so!)!! Then DH goes "What"?!? And shook his head. I could tell DH was Pissed about whatever was said. Then he talked to SS9 for awhile. Told him to have a goodnight & have fun with his friend.

Soooo..... BM not only did NOTHING about SS14's thievery---- but she REWARDED it by letting SS14 whos supposedly grounded & "stripped of everyrhing" to have 3 friends Spend the Night!!!!!!!! & go to the movies!!!!!

Ohhhh Lord!!!! WTF is BM thinking?!? Obviously shes Not!!! Ugh!!!!

Sooo.... BM... Do NOT call here whining & complaining and 'wondering why the kids dont do as told, flunk their classes, get in fights, etc. when YOU arent Parenting them!!! Ugh. Frustrating!!!!