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Gonna whack my lazy DH!

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I am not in a good mood...I used to have a huge house and worked ful-time, homeschooled my autistic son, cleaned the house, helped with uard work, took lid to therapies, etc...DH would try to help out, but would say that we could never have fun because the house was so big we always had to clean. Now in a tiny apt, i do alot except I don't work...I wanted a house and DH has been trying to convince me to stay at the apt because there is less to do here, etc. In return I cook 3 meals a day since I still homeschool, when a neighbor comes by to hang out w/DH I make them appetizers, same thing when he goes to the pool w/our son and hangs out w/the guys...in return DH does less than he did at the big house! He says "I never complain if you don't cook or clean"...sure...he doesn't say anything, but says he's tired of eating out, etc...and he's not the one who is here 24/7 with allergies if the place is dirty either! I wish I still had a job and my kiddo was in school...I mean, geez...you'd think that our place would be spotless if he dedicated just one hour a day to cleaning something! But i realize his mother is a pig too! As long as the place "looks clean", ie. nothing on the floor, there can be dust behind every couch and bed, dead bugs behind whatever and if nobody can see it, oh well...

I should've checked his parents out before I dated him!

Of course, i won'r even bother with the fact he has no idea about his preggo kid...if ir weren't for me, he'd be sending her money in addition to cs thinking the little liar was still in school and doing great, as he believed her for years...

Sigh, he is a nice guy, he doesn't complain about anything...but that's because he does nothing...