FSS's 4th Bday and BM Naked on FB
I feel so bad for BF. Yesterday was his son's 4th birthday and he tried to call a few times to say happy birthday, but BM wouldn't answer her phone. I guess at 4 FSS might not really remember, but it made BF sad. Plus that's just wrong. BF makes sure that the kids call their mom when they're just visiting. I know he wouldn't ignore her calls if we had them for a birthday or holiday--he would at least have the kids call her back.
I was pissy this morning so I did the vile thing and looked on BM's BF's facebook and sure enough there are already over 100 pictures of FSS's birthday party posted. All of BM's redneck friends and family are there, and most of the pics are of them flipping off the camera looking drunk. Ugh. Sorry maybe I'm just pissed off, but seriously? Grow up.
I'm also disturbed because there were naked pics of BM on there. It was in a different album (another album was entitled "November 21, 2010"--which was yesterday/FSS's bday, but apparently it was from another time), but wtf? Is that sort of thing even allowed on facebook? There's several topless ones and one full-on naked one. It was one of those trainwreck moments where you want to look away but you can't. Anyway, I feel really weird right now. Disturbed. And still upset for BF. Ugh. I'm just so disgusted with this right now.
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WOAH! I'd hit print (not
WOAH!
I'd hit print (not that you want that crap lying around your house...) and seal it in a package, attach it to any/all documentation you have on her already. And if you don't have documentation, start now! For her to not allow your H to talk to his child on his birthday is also out of line. On our stipulation it says something like each parent should be allowed to get into contact with his/her child at any time and especially on holidays or birthdays.
And no, FB does not allow nude photos. There's an option on the photo to flag it as offensive and Facebook can actually shut down her whole page. (Don't do this until after you print/save!)
Some people have no couth
Some people have no couth when it comes to social networking.....sounds like BM is a real piece of work. Fortunately, Dh has made it out of the "keep him away form the skids as punishment for moving on" stage, but belive me, other issues quickly take its place...lol. Tell DH to remain consistent in his attempts and hopefully things will get better for you guys. And, don't worry about her facebook, its very possible that she's trying to get your goat.
Thanks guys. I'm still
Thanks guys. I'm still feeling really bizarre right now. I blame pms, but I'd REALLY like to punch something.
Anyway, to clarify, the pics were not on her fb page, they were on her boyfriend's (hers is private, his is not). I don't think she knows I can see those, and I'm pretty sure he posted them of her. I know she's a wench, but I don't know if she'd go so far as to agree to posting nude pics of herself on the internet. My guess is he did it because he's a no class jackhole and thought it was funny/cool to show off his gf to his buddies. I'm guessing she won't be too thrilled to see them, but I could be wrong.
I'm more pissed at her for not letting BF talk to his son on his birthday. BF was kinda sad, but he didn't seem surprised. The pics, well I'm just more creeped out by those than anything.
OMG PLEASE print those
OMG PLEASE print those pictures. Bwahahaha, never know when that might be handy.......
Gross! I'm disturbed for ya!
Gross! I'm disturbed for ya! I think I would have night terrors if I saw nude pictures of BM. Just having to look at her when I pick up and drop off is enough. Definitely print and store away as documentation. Also, make sure to note the dates and times BF called his son.
No class; def print the picts
No class; def print the picts though - could come in handy (or maybe when you just need a laugh) Sorry BF had to go through that though!!