To update, BM's BF asked her and the 2 skids to move out of his house after 5 years. Well, it has started, and we knew it would. She is already asking BF for more money. He had to give her 13% of his XMAS bonus. In the past it was 19%, but one kid is over 18 now and no more CS. So she asked him for the other 6% of his bonus to help with oldest daughter's books in 2nd year of college, and clothes are so expensive, and his CS doesn't even cover the private school which the 14 year old is flunking out of, etc. etc. This woman is so manipulative. She has sent 2 e-mail now asking for extra money since she found out she will have to move out and start paying rent for the first time since they've got divorced 6 years ago. But I think BF is playing it pretty good, he told her that he is giving each girl a DisneyLand pass, which they've done for years, that's $195 each, and giving them each a gift card for $100 and that's it. But he did agree to pay for books for college student, after he find out what has happened to her financial aide money. BM says she didn't get it yet, either they didn't apply or she wasn't approved or got it and is just trying to get more because she has already finished a whole semester and would have gotten it by now. Last year she got $4,000 for the year, which is a lot of money because CA schools are very cheap and it's a JR college. Mom wants her to go out of state next year...the woman is living in LA LA land - literally! Anyway, I hope he sticks to his guns on this, he admits if he even looks like he's going to start giving her more...it will Never STOP! She still hasn't told the girls she has to move out and she hasn't told BF when they have to be out. And he doesn't ask anything about it...as soon as he looks interested...he'll be in - hook line and sinker. She's being very quiet for the meantime trying to get him to inquire...and pull him in. Like he says...'it's her deal, not his'.