1st time blogger..engaged to 49yr old DF. I am 53, second marriage. I have no children (medical reason's). DF, 3 adult children. SD 24, SS 22 and SD 19. BM still a big part of DF life even tho kids are adults. SS seems to be nice to me but the girls are not. SD19 is horrible and when i try to talk to DF regarding this he is defensive. He tells me girls are protective of him. I tell him it hurts my feelings. I own my home, same job 24 yrs, wonderful siblings, parents, nieces, nephews. No baggage. Have never had trouble meeting new people. Have been with DF for almost 4 yrs.