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OMG! Where do I begin!!!
For today's topic - so my soon to be 16 year old stepdaughter, who is a professed bisexual (more on that at a later time), is just getting out of hand!
To back it up a little, so late last year I found out through my sister in law that the SD, who I shall name Petunia, had sex with a boy that was her partner at her sweet fifteen party early last year. I happen to have him as a friend on FB. So, not wanting to take my SIL’s word at face value and not wanting to tell her father, who is the love of my life, about it either, I decided to send the boy a message asking to speak with him and for him to call me when he could.
Backing it up even further – I came across some IMs from Petunia and said boy – let’s call him Johnny – where Petunia had apparently snuck into Johnny’s home and had apparently done some unmentionables with Johnny. So I logged on FB as Petunia and started IMing with Johnny about what happened. Eventually he realized I was not Petunia (no effing DUH), I told him the truth that it was not Petunia, and I threatened to tell his mother (who is very strict with him) if he did not tell me the truth. He swore up and down that they did not “engage”, but apparently he lied… Petunia ended up telling my SIL’s dear friend, who told my SIL, who then told me… and so on and so on… which is why I wanted to get it straight from him – fast forward to the message I sent him on FB.
Now, fast forward to today – so I am snooping around in her room (which I tend to do from time to time because dear ol’ Petunia is a compulsive liar and an occasional thief). And low and behold, I find a printed copy of the email I sent to Johnny in one of Petunia’s purses! OMG! I WAS LIVID! But then again, these ARE 14,15, and 16 year olds, so what the heck did I expect, right?
Anywho, that was my frustration this morning. I was half tempted to finally tell her dad, who I shall name Prince Charming because he IS MY Prince Charming, that she is no longer virginal, mostly to make sure she is at least using protection, and mostly to make sure she does not contract any STDs, and ok…. mostly to make sure to shame her, but I won’t… all things eventually come out, and just how my SIL had no trouble “keeping me informed”, I am sure Petunia will piss her off so bad one of these days, that all I will have to will be to sit back and watch…
That’s it for now… until next time!
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LMAO!!!! Pretty darn close
LMAO!!!! Pretty darn close Crayon... sad, but true...
Where do these girls come up
Where do these girls come up with this stuff!!! Well, Petunia's bio-mom is really no help, so I can see where Petunia gets several of her tendencies... but these girls make up these stories just to get attention, and it just kills me...
HICKEYS! AAAH!! That was the
HICKEYS! AAAH!! That was the subject line about two weeks ago...
So Petunia wanted to go to a dance on a Saturday night two weeks ago. She wanted to go shopping, so I drop her off, go run some errands, come back to pick her up and pay for the merchandise, and when I see what she has picked out - OH MY! Four inch heel suede pumps! Now mind you, I am a moderate fashionista, so I secretely admit they were cute. However, she is still only 15, and with her frame and body type, it just would not have looked right. AND not to mention I knew her father would NEVER approve. So I told her so - she insisted, almost had a temper tantrum in the store. So I told her I would get them, but once we got home and her father said no to the shoes, I was NOT bringing her back to exchange them the next day before party.
Sure enough - we get home, and he went ballistic (in the manner that he does). Even got upset with me (rightly so) for lettig her walk out the store with them.
THEN - it gets better - Petunia's grandmother (Prince Charming's momma)calls me the next morning (I am not at home) and proceeds to tell me that we should not allow Petunia to go to the dance because she had noticed that Petunia had a hickey on her neck! WHAT!!! I call Prince Charming, tell him he needs to call his momma, yada yada yada... she did not go to the dance, and the shoes have yet to be returned...
HUH! Back it up there a
HUH! Back it up there a second HS - that is really not such a great welcome...
Now, I did go straight to the source - JOHNNY! Had I gone to Petunia, she would have vehemently denied it, and would have probably made up some boo-hoo story to steer away from the truth. Had I told her father, he would have lost it! And up until today, I thought Johnny was a respectful and likable kid, and I certainly did not expect him to lie. AND let's not forget that I did not ask for this infomration - it came to me.
With that said, did I/do I sneak around to get the truth about Petunia? YES! ABSOLUTELY! Have I spoken to her about these issues before in private and confidentially? I SURE HAVE! Did it solve anything with the prior approach! NOPE, SURE DIDN'T! So, this is where I am today. And just to give a little history - I have been in Petunia's life for the past 5 1/2 years, so there is a lot of history there that I have yet to divulge. However, I am not so sure about wanting to do that anymore...
Hi HS, sorry about snapping
Hi HS, sorry about snapping there a little as well...
Prince Charming knew about the whole FB incident because when I first saw the IMs, I showed them to him, and we agreed that we needed to find out more. And well the email she has printed would be ammo against herself because then it would all come out as to WHY I sent it in first place, so I am not concerned at all...
I just want to know the truth, that is all. There are other younger children that I need to guard over, and as of right now, she is setting a horrible example as the big sister...