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just another day in hell

going crazy in AZ's picture

So "The Boy" gets in trouble at school for kicking the wall. He freaks like always because its not that he is being bad its that everyone picks on him. The teacher puts him on the front porch and calls me, I tell her she needs to call his Uncle since he is out of my control. When "The Boy" is talking to his Uncle on the phone he starts screaming I dont want to be beat, Which he has never been BEAT in his life with us. Then tells the teacher that the mark on his hand and the bruise on his leg from falling off a bike was from his Uncle. So of course the teacher calls the police and CPS. I had sherrifs at my door with in an hour who photographed my whole house and interviewed me for over an hour. Then CPS shows up later that night threatening to remove my bios because its an unsafe enviroment.
When the sherrif interviews my Boyfrind he tells him he needs to start spending more one on one time with "The Boy" when he acts up. So instead of getting punished because hes a brat he gets to go for ice cream. Im so fed up. Now my children are punished even more because this kid. Already we dont even go anywhere because we can not take "The Boy" in public. My Boyfriend works a 70 hour week and now any extra time he has hes supposed to coddle the bad egg. What kind of message does that send to the little kids? If you're bad and mean you get extra attention? BS.

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ctnmom's picture

I'd be hot-footing it out of there so fast, do you really want to risk losing your OWN kids for that monster? :jawdrop:

hurtandalone's picture

Yeah I TOTALLY agree with this.... once it comes down to losing your own bios, I would be looking for apartments ASAP and leaving. I am sorry but this is your BF's flesh and blood, and the bios are YOUR flesh and blood. You MUST protect your children.

hurtandalone's picture

Jeeeeeeze.... Have you looked anymore into some type of intensive (maybe inpatient) therapy?

going crazy in AZ's picture

The bags are being packed and I am only a dust outline of myself, Im moving so fast!!!!!

going crazy in AZ's picture

I am not Ok but have to be for my babies. Hopefully I will still have hair when this blows over. But I can only worry what will happen now that "The Boy" sees the power he just wielded. Thanks so much much for your thoughts.

Kilgore SMom's picture

I feel so bad for you. But you must do what is best for your Bio's. Do not risk having charges brought against you. It will always follow you. DH would have to do some stepping up. SS needs to go to anger management and counseling. I haven't read your other blogs so i'm not sure of SS age. If your DH works as many hours as you say it sounds like alot of the responsibliy of SS fall on you. (hugs) I hope the best for you.