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Goincrazy40's picture

Must skids ALWAYS have priority over everything? My DH and I never have plans. Never. We are invited over to a neighbor's house tonight. DH has known about this for weeks. We were supposed to be there 20 minutes ago. But where is he? Running one skid to a last minute plan and then I'm sure he will then run the other skid to a last minute plan. I'm so angry! It's not like these are toddlers that require babysitting either. They are both teenagers that are #1 more than capable of staying home alone and. #2 both more than capable of setting up rides to get where they need to be. But no why would they bother when they have Disney Dad the chauffeur at their beck and call? Who doesn't know how to say, "sorry but GoinCrazy and I have plans tonight I can't take you."

He actually was going to take the Prince SS15 but was telling Sd13 she had to stay home. I said no way. You always do that to her. However, I don't understand why you are incapable of telling them BOTH no.

He said, "this just wasn't a good night for this get together." Huh? Oh so our friends are supposed to schedule arounds your stupid teenagers now? OMG I felt like decking him.

So here I sit as the appetizer I made is drying out in the oven, because as usual, no one told ME any of this garbage was going on until two minutes before he went out the door with the prince. Sigh.

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canigetabm's picture

Take your appetizer and go to the neighbors. If he wants to show up later then he will. I wouldn't put my life on hold for that crap. I hate waiting.

godess-clueless's picture

Hopefully you have your own car. This is not likely to change so learn to plan your own way to where you want to go. Your plans will always be second place to dh's childrens.last minute needs. You dd your part to prepare, dh didn't.

Shaman29's picture

Take your dish and go to your neighbors house. Leave him a note.

It's time you start doing things without him. Show him your life will not be managed by his two kids.

twoviewpoints's picture

What he did was not only unfair and bs to you, but he is being incredibly rude to the neighbors just to leave them hanging believing their guest were coming.

Ljcapp1's picture

I'm extremely antisocial, but if I did agree to go to a neighbors and take food I would go without him