I'm desperately seeking help from anyone whose dealt with a nut job ex that insists on using the child as leverage. I have been with my husband for almost 3 years now and his ex gf (thats right gf, not wife!), does not leave us alone. Granted, they have a 4 yr. old daughter together. She does not allow us visitation, although it is every other weekend. My husband makes all his CS payments, and takes care of both his children. When we are allowed to see her, generally his ex is late, makes us drive both ways
(2-4 hrs), & the child is dirty and hungry.