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foxymama87's picture

This weekend was the slumber party for SD9. Will I host a slumber party for SD9 again? Hell no! This will probably be the first and last. Its just too much work and too stressful to do for someone who doesn't appreciate it. I didn't even get a thanks!

However it did go well. We all had a good time (more the girls then I of course.) SD9 at the end throw a little tantrum over a box of crayons (This girl is nine and she's crying over crayons.. ridiculous!) But other then that it went smoothly.

Anyway enough about that...

After the slumber party SD9 went to her moms house for the rest of the weekend. Well I had My douse of SD9 All Friday night and Saturday morning. Since I was on my own with the girls because great helper DH decided to hide upstairs in our bedroom to watch football while I was doing EVERYTHING!! at the slumber party. What great help he was...

Well SD9 came back Sunday evening. We all had dinner and just relaxed in front of the TV for a few hours. While SD9 was in the shower. DH and I were downstairs fighting over the remote. (I'm so sick of watching fucking Football. It gets old after 3 back to back games! and he had been watching it all damn WEEKEND! give it a rest for crying out loud! ) He finally gave in and decided to go shower and watch the game upstairs. Well I was alone watching a good movie. 30 mins into it and SD9 comes down stairs to join me. "yay lucky me...not!" (I was watching 127 hours..Rated R) Well I left it on anyway because I'm sick of having to change my movies only because she's in the damn living room being nosy . She should go upstairs if she wants to watch TV. (She has one in her room, unfortunately.)

Any how as soon as she sits on the couch she starts asking questions about the movie and the guy and the rocks and the place and his arm and etc...
drives me off the f**king wall. I want to watch a movie in peace is that too much to ask? (Note: I wanted to be alone! I dealt with 5 lil girls all weekend including SD9, the last thing I want is her ruining my pace and quite.)

So I think, "screw it!" change the channel and tell her I'm going up stairs to lay down. (its 7:10pm) She decides she wants to stay downstairs to watch TV so I leave her. Well DH gets all pissed at me because I left his sweet 9 year old all by her self downstairs in the living room. He was like "why didn't you keep her company? whats your problem? You don't leave a 9 year old by her self!" I looked at him and was like Seriously? She's fucking 9 not 1 she can manage on her own down stairs its not like we left her alone in the house! Well he gets up leaves the room (slams the door on his way out) and joins her.

So I think to myself "Really, Like what crawled up his ass, WTF did I do?" I didn't see anything wrong leaving SD9 on her own for 40 mins in the living room, WTF is His Problem? LMAO I just thought it was so silly of him to throw a tantrum over something as pathetic as leaving a 9 yr old in the living room. Talk about choosing your battles. He didn't pick a very good one. LMAO and he made him self look like a fool! hahaha

Story of my life! Spend almost all weekend doing something nice for HIS daughter. I get a thanks hun, then a scolding for leaving his stupid daughter downstairs and not to mention a lovely nothing from SD9.

Does it get any better then this?

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WHERESMYWART's picture

Yup sounds about right. *hugs* And if your husband wanted someone to keep SD9 company, he could have just gotten up and done that without the fit. He chose to go upstairs first so he could watch his precious football, leaving you to deal with SD.

dragonfly5's picture

Yes it does get better than this! That is crap! I am having another slumber party for fsd11 on Friday. She has already thanked me at least 10 times for doing it for her. And my SO has as well.

We all are quick to notice when someone does something nice for us, and thank them. This is behavior that can be learned and your DH needs to set the example by thanking you for doing something nice for HIS daughter.

And she can be left alone to amuse herself. Your DH is a unthankful piece of work and that is why his daughter acts the way she does. Like father like daughter

Draw the line in the sand girl. Take care of you, if these unthankful people are not going to acknoweldge you, you do it. Then the next time SD9 wants something tell your DH this one is up to you.

briarmommy's picture

I leave SS8 alone all the time to amuse himself, your DH would probably hate me. In the morning I make SS stay in his room and play until DH gets up, it started as an incentive trying to make DH wake up in the mornings but DH didn't care and he stays in his room and plays sometimes up to an hour and a half in the mornings until DH gets up. Then I get the chance to get some stuff done without him bugging me.

Trust me kids can amuse themselve, this is just your DH wanting to not feel guilty for hiding out and watching football, he doesn't need to feel guilty if your there doing his job so he blames you when he actually has to do his job.

newbiemommy's picture

That's EXACTLY what the story is here. SD10 is attended to 24/7. She JUST started sleeping on her own!! I REFUSED to let that continue. What is wrong with these dads treating these kids like babies!? Fun stuff right?? Oh, and "thank-yous"?? NEVER!