After several hours of reading and relating to many stories here I would like to say that we're not alone. We are not CRUELLAS whatsoever.We're not the BAD GUYS at all. We're only human and more specifically WOMEN who need their space, their privacy, their quality time with the so-called DH. We won't be able, for sure, to change our partner's guilt-based parenting, our SK's bad manners or sickening whiny voices, we won't be able to smack the BM on the face(in my case I'll change it for MB =MAJOR/MASSIVE BIOTCH)But maybe, just maybe we WILL be able to help each other just by exchanging our experiences and ideas. I won't tell you that my life has changed today, but something has moved, at least squirmed a little. I've taken some advice, I'll disengage, eventually, one step at a time. I won't put up with so much BM-SD-related-crap. I need to go on figuring myself out first, so I'll keep on with my therapy and fight this anxiety thing that makes things even harder, makes a tiny problem look like a GIGANTIC NIGHTMARE. First thing first... First US. When the going gets tough, the tough get going" girls!! We have a lot to do so we'd better get started!!

I'm glad I've found this site. Thanks for reading I hope you have an awesome week!! (fingers crossed)

Flor