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Submitted by flintstonegarden on Thu, 06/25/2015 - 4:22pm

Today is the last day of school for our kids. Unfortunately the are divided between two elementary schools. Mine let us know they had award assemblies. His said they didn't. I am really hoping for his sake that was the case otherwise he may have BM text ripping him again. He spoke to his lawyer yesterday regarding their divorce and all her demands for the assets but essentially refusing to take any of the debt.... hopefully all this fighting will soon end (I'm being optimistic but...) He is also getting his lawyers to to include in the paper work the she is not to harass me by phone or in person, and for her to respect our weeks (parenting time) with the kids and not seek out the kids during our weeks just as we respect her parenting time and don't seek out the kids when they are with her. She has been going to the school and pulling them from class. the only reason we can figure is to get information on us/our home etc. Also, I had a follow up with our family social worker. I love when she comes for our sessions. Always leaves me feeling better about how I'm doing as a mom/Stepmom.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Thu, 06/25/2015 - 5:48pm

Why didn't he just call the ask if they were having an assembly?

Tomorrow is our last day of school!!! The kids leave at 11:30. I hope we're able to leave a little early as well. Tomorrow night I'm making a big batch of the rum punch that was posted here the other day.

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Submitted by flintstonegarden on Thu, 06/25/2015 - 6:06pm

I wish I had a good answer for why he didn't just call but the only answer I have is he's a guy and relies on woman to do that stuff for him. LOL

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Submitted by flintstonegarden on Thu, 06/25/2015 - 8:10pm

I know she cant afford to fight more then the court battle she and DH have going through and she doesn't qualify for legal aid so if push comes to shove I can go after her on my own giving her two battle to pay for but i'd rather not stoop to her level.... Yes, she hates that after she cheated on him he kicked her out and moved on with his life. She has had it out for me since she found out he had started dating again. She tries to control me (doesn't work), thinks she better then everyone (wish you could meat her)... but this is where I smile, she lives with her new partner whom she cheated with while still married and living under the same roof as DH.... her guy quit his job and spends his days playing video games all day (a real bum in my eyes). She supports him, pays all the bills etc. DH and I both work, both contribute to our household, both support each others children as we would our own... I know she's mad because DH is happy but I keep thinking to myself "Why? she's the one who cheated and fucked up; not him." Even his lawyer is surprised with how angry she is and the types of demands she's throwing out there.