i am the step mother to 3 beautiful children. their mother is hit or miss in or out. she likes her men and her drugs more than her children but they are some sort of show piece so twice a month they see her when it fits in with her busy alcoholic drug addicted schedule. tonight when they came home LATE from visitation my 3 year old was sick she said...running a low grade fever she said HE LEFT THE HOUSE PERFECTLY FINE BY THE WAY...they gave him children's tylenol around 5...he wasn't too feverish...in fact he wasn't running a fever at all when i tested him..he was groggy and lethargic...i thought nothing of it put him in his pjs and tried to get us to a state of normalcy...he wanted to lay on our bed and then said he had to throw up...he threw up straight chocolate to which my other 2 kiddos said all he ate today was chocolate and candy...my 11 yr. old said almost a whole bag of hersheys kisses...i noticed that he was red around the eyes when he came home then dad and i both noticed that his eyes were bloodshot and dilated and then he got so sick...2 things occurred to me...he has heat stroke and he is stoned...i hate that woman with every bone in my body... she is a whore and a liar and a bitch and she is so evil and i am still repeatedly blown away at how sexist and horrible and terrible this court system is against fathers who are trying to take care of their children we are entering into year 3 of this and it is appalling to me that a drug addicted alcoholic with multiple arrests and dui's and psych holds who owes $30,000 in child support can still maintain visitation over their children...is it because she is a woman? because if that is so then i am even more shocked at how unbelievably stupid this court system is...thank you for having a forum where i can vent...i don't come here often because most of the time things are swell but i am so full of hate and venom for that horrid horrid beast of a woman who doesn't even ask her own daughters about their friends, or their school, or their lives but says that she is the best mother ever can continue to breathe on this earth...