My DH and i hav ebeen together it seems like forever but we started back up after a 9 month break when i moved to tucson but anyway when his daughter was born I wasnt all dumb about it I was excited for him and when i met the BM on 4th of just (3 days after she had my SD) I was nice and my DH told me b4 she got there to not make fun of him bc he is big...i told him wtf she just had a baby and not to bemean...well she was "a little big" but who really cares i figured she must have a good personality....nope. At the time he lived with 2 other guys in a 4 bed house with pool in middle it was super cute ...but anyway my kids were at my moms for the evening while we had a 4th of july party....she had his daughter sitting next to her playing cards (i thought she was in the spare room) The BM and her friend lit a joint and started smoking it in front of her 3day old daughter. We were in different rooms (mock poker tournament) and i walked in adn saw it and told her its not good to smoke by an child especially a new baby. Ever since then i havebeen known as the "bitch" and "slut" and everything else. She tried spreading rumors to my friends and tlaked shit about how my baby stone would sleep in his carseat. *well f her bc its the only place he would sleep* She talked to his family about how i was a bad mom....I just wish i would have known then what i know now... She has been trouble for 3 plus years. I have been uninvited to fmaily bbq's bc no one wanted to hurt her feelings. ill blog somemore soon about more things lol i love being able to finally get this stuff off my chest it makes me sane