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The Holidays are just soooo awesome hey?

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Fri, 12/18/2020 - 9:42pm

Aaaahhh.... the holidays. Cue the anxiety. I often feel like I'm crying on the inside. I don't even know why I bother trying to plan anything around this P.O... BM just does whatever she wants, when she wants. "Letting" DH have them on Xmas eve/morning although it's her time because her DH is not going to be around. And DH, is just so grateful for her crumbs of kindness, regardless if I had my heart set on Christmas Eve/morning with just DH and our kids, y'know, like how my life should have been if I knew then what I know now. Because next year it will be with everyone...

The Little Green Robot

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Sat, 11/07/2020 - 8:18pm

OSS is 12. With the mentality of a 3yr old. Literally. There's this stupid, tiny, green robot that has been packed away in a box in the garage for YEARS! DH and I cleaned the garage this summer and tossed tons of junk. Our daughter, 3, found it and loves it. Plays with it all the time. Tonight, OSS starts taunting her with it and pretending to melt it in the microwave and not giving it back to her saying it's his robot. DH steps in and tells him to stop, no one wants to hear her have a melt down and to give her the robot back. He argues back saying it is his robot, blah blah blah.

Add chauffer to my list of jobs now too

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Wed, 09/30/2020 - 9:19pm

DH and his ex didn't want to get bus passes this year for skids. It's damn near $600 a kid, so just shy of $1200 for both. BM moved into our neighbourhood last year, now the kids arent living at one residence in the zone for their school, and that is why the bus pass is the maximum amount. If they switch schools to the designated school, its only $50/kid. 

 

Pointless

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Mon, 08/24/2020 - 1:36pm

What is the point of a parenting order if it isn't even followed? Switch is for Mondays after school, or around 3-4pm. I have plenty to do today with juggling my 2 young ones already. I go upstairs to put my hair up and come downstairs to find Skids on the couch, they have taken over the main TV to play video games from BD who was watching her cartoons. It's noon. I'm just irritated. Dad's not even here as he is at work. Don't you have a TV and Xbox at your mom's? I know you do. But just come over here and disrupt my plans for the day, make a mess. I'm not even given a heads up.

Halloween costumes during a heat wave. Makes sense

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Fri, 07/31/2020 - 7:31pm

It's currently quite hot where I am today. One of the SS's took a halloween costume out of our tickle trunk a few weeks ago and just left it lying around the house. I finally put it back yesterday. Today he asks me where it is, I told him, he goes and gets it, puts it on and goes in the backyard with it. This particular SS leaves his effin socks in the grass, shirts on the deck, sweaters on my bike and the trampoline... never ending. I told DH that if he doesn't put the costume back where he got it when he is done with it, I am going to throw it in the fire pit at the lake tmrw.

F### the (DH) suck...

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Mon, 07/06/2020 - 1:52am

Big rant... I capitulate, and capitulate, over and over and over....why? Gets me no where. Bargains me nothing. Then, when I bring it up, of course, I'm the bitch. Standard. Wow. Try living with you. Spineless. It took finding out your first born was your step brothers in order to get that boot off your neck. What will it take for you to understand I'm not a f##### maid, but a person? 

 

Eating chips

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Fri, 02/21/2020 - 7:33pm

It's just a zoo in here some days. Skids walk around here like they have lead in their feet, each step pounds the floor, shakes the house. Doors slammed, waking up the toddler, waking up the baby. Yelling at fornite. Yelling at toddler. Eating chips like it's an effing contest to see who can chew the loudest, with their mouth open, while sticking their unwashed hands in and out of the bag crunching it. 

It's enough to drive one mad. 

No good deed left undone

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Fri, 02/14/2020 - 12:58am

... my family is a step, so is husbands. So is our own blend. I was much older when my parents split, less affected I feel. It breaks my heart that ALL 4 of my parents are more of parents to my husband than his mother and stepfather. As I type this with my husbands head in my lap while he sleeps. I could pay $200/hr for a therapy session but I'll put it out here instead. I cant understand what my DH did to deserve getting cheated on by his ex with his stepbrother and the two f0cks having a kid together and LYING to DH and everyone else about it for over a decade, including SS.

Here's a new twist!! MIL treats skids/grandkids better than bio??

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Fri, 11/01/2019 - 6:30pm

My DH's family consists of his mother, 2 bio siblings, 3 step sibs, and a step dad. So my MIL, who I actually enjoy spending time with, has bailed on every important thing in our lives-BUT the wedding. It has all been brought to my attention because of my DH's step sis. The 1 girl in all boys (I have sisters so I do not understand the pedestal). We were pregnant at the same time having the only granddaughters weeks apart, and I just had a son and a few months later she had a son.

No respect.

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Submitted by Fedupmama on Sun, 09/29/2019 - 10:57pm

Noooone. DH just asked oldest SS (his oldest BS) to go to bed. I dont believe the couch is a bed, the living room is not a bedroom, and listening to him sawing logs isnt how I like to enjoy watching a Sunday night movie. So he gets up, walks into the kitchen, then sits right back on the couch and starts dozing off again. Flabbergasted. 

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