If there ever was movie that i could relate
to its Why Did I Get Married. I know i have watched that movie atleast five times. It makes me look deep down into our relationship and make sure that this is what i really want. It makes me really make sure that i want to get married on May 31st. It deals with everyday problems plus this is this one couple with a crazy baby mamma and her husband has no balls.(sounds familiar doesn't it) As much i don't too much care about SK i love their daddy to death. So dealing with them is just a minor inconvenience that i will deal with. Things are getting better now. I just don't deal with BM at all. I don't even let him talk to me about the stupid things that she does. Because it is not any of my business. He is like you don't care about SK no its just that they are your responsibilty and if BM does something that effects them then its for you to handle. That is where i am now. I hate to be like that b/c i know that we are suppose to listen to our spouses but right now my peace of mind and tranquility mean more to me than his kids or their BM.
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keep that mentality
and don't ever let DH convince you otherwise. My biggest mistake was trying to take on the entire world of DH and his ex, Skids and all the baggage that came with it. Now over two years later I have a therapist telling me that I need to do what you are already doing. Otherwise you will be like many of us on this site wondering what we got ourselves into and what to do to survive. It may sound harsh or heartless, but I completely understand where you are at. And years down the road when the kids have had the chance to adapt to you and you have built a relationship with them, DH will be grateful.
Now I am gonna go watch that movie because I havent seen it yet;)
Goingcrazy
when you watch the movie let me know if you liked it.
If raising children was going to be easy, it never would have started with something called labor!
I wish I'd Thought of That
Mindset, that is. It's also taken several years of grasping at any option I could secretly exercise to get to the point you're at. And when DH asked me why I was seeing a therapist in secret I told him, "Because you people are trying to drive me crazy!"
It's never late, in fiction or in life, to revies.--Nancy Thayer