I'm starting to really lose hope in my marriage. DH has had issues with BM since before we got together. Funnily enough she cheated then left him for someone else. They have 3 kids. When I came on the scene everything was fine then then whatever happened between her an the new BF ended suddenly she wanted DH back (this was 7 years ago now). He didn't want her back and now we have been paying the price since.