2022 has been very busy and stressful, to add on top of the stress we have to move because our landlord plans to move back. We were able to find a home very quickly and start to plan things around, and DH told SS stb 15 today that we will be moving soon. 

Immediately SS wanted/asked to have the "extra room" as his HW room (there is no extra room, we both work from home and for the past few years I am the only person who has no room for herself in the whole household). He then asked about restroom, clearly also wanted to "claim" one to be his own. (Not necessarily a bad idea, since we all have to tolerate his pee on the toilet seat now, just the selfish thoughts are hard to ignore)

I get that he's on the spectrum, I just really can't stand how selfish he can be. This is not the first time, last time he asked whether I can give him my condo (the whole condo!) to him since I was to move out and no longer needed it. He was under 10 so at least that was more forgivable. (apparently I'm no forgiving person haha) 5 years have gone by and the boy is still the same. 

DH shut him real quick, and reminded him how much the rent is and SS is contributing to none. (Not that we need them to contribute, just at least not to be so selfish maybe??) I am just still not able to get over this yet ...I'm going to blame this on my monthly.