I do 95% of the housework. I do 100% of the cooking. I do 95% of all dishes. I do 80% of all laundry (DH does only his own clothes, BD11 does towels and sheets). I do 95% of all childcare. I do 25% of all outdoor work. I do 20% of all pet care (DH is pretty good about that). I also work full time outside the home.

So last night I am making dinner. DH has a bad habit of disappearing into our bedroom, with the door shut, for hours at a time. So it is just BD8 and BD11 and myself.

Dinner is done, I dish up dinner for BD8, dish up dinner for myself, dish up dinner for BD11. Then I sit down. Yes, I could have told DH that dinner was ready but he KNEW I was cooking. He knows I serve dinner by 7 every night. He was just being lazy as usual, and I am fed up.

DH comes out of our bedroom about 7:30 and sees BD8 eating (I had already finished). He had a baby man meltdown about me not coming and telling him dinner was ready. I mean making SEVERAL passive-aggressive comments about it and even confronting me to my face about WHY I didn't tell him dinner was ready. He said, "Thanks a lot," and I said, "You're welcome." Dude, I cook dinner for you every damn night and you're going to get all hostile that I don't come tell you it's ready? Suck it.

So of course I'm pissed, he's pissed (wrongly). He disappears into our bedroom with his dinner and slams the door SUPER HARD. Later I had to go in there to do something in the bathroom and I walk sideways with my eyes averted because I don't want to look at him and I have no intention of engaging him. I am trying to leave and the man asks me, in a normal tone of voice, if I want to watch some show he likes to watch "together."

I'd had it. I looked at him and said:
"Are you bipolar or what?"
His response:
"I don't know."

I said:
"You scream and yell at me for not telling you dinner was ready and you think I want to hang out and watch a show with you?"

He just gave me the dumb look and I left the room.

I do think he is bipolar, or just a giant asshole. And he does NOT see it.