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duckie06's picture

My boyfriend and I have been together 7 yrs. We have a 5 yr old son. His ex-wife has always not liked me. She doesnt even take the time to get to know me. Yet she tells there daughters that I dont love them and its all just a show i put on to make her jelous. She always texts me things that she shouldnt say like my life is horrable and I am a nasty ,fat ,ugly person and her life is soooo much better and I am jelous b/c she is perfect and I wish I had er life. I am far from jelous I am very much in love with my boyfriend we have a good life not perfect but its good. why she do these things?

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DaizyDuke's picture

First off... BM should NEVER have your cell number...bock her # or get a new number and don't ever give it to her.

Second... ignore her! She's getting a rise out of this, don't give her the satisfaction.

tterry316's picture

She's jealous. Sometimes exes look back on what could have been instead of concentrating on what is going on in there here and now. She is also probably threatened that you'll take her place in her children's eyes. It all boils down to insecurity on her part..
I wish women like her would get a life and leave others to enjoy theirs. She hasn't moved on.. Give it time. She'll find someone else and then she'll pay less attention to you.

moongirl1701's picture

Its so obvious she is jealous and threatned by you. I would never respond to her as hard as that is to do. If she never gets a rise out of you, she will quit. Just keep on what your doing with the kids, they will be able to see for themselves that its not fake. I would never say anything bad about their mom to them, or even mention the mean things she texts to you.

SisterNeko's picture

BM does not have the right to txt you and it is harassment. I had a BM like that I told her to stop and (she hasn't yet) but if she txt me again I am calling the cops. Just put your foot down and don't play into her stupid little game.