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drainedandataloss's picture

Submitted by drainedandataloss on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 12:31pm

So my SD -11, texts her dad (we got her a phone for her birthday so we could keep in touch with her - bm would never answer the phone or give her messages) Anyway SD texts her dad this morning "SOS, please please help!" So of course he calls her right away and asks what's wrong. She tells him that last night she went in the basement to cry cause she was still upset BM hadn't gotten or done anything for her birthday and BM came down there yelling at her and SD asks where's her money at (her grandparent's gave her $80 but BM did nothing, not even a birthday cake- as mentioned in last blog). SD said BM took the money and won't give it back. So BM changes the subject and asks SD why she's been texting me. BM tells SD that if she keeps texting me BM's going to "knock her out". Can you believe this BS!!!!????!!! I know what happened to SD's money, I saw pics of BM out drinking (which she's on felony probation and not supposed to be drinking) and partying it up this past weekend, that's why she doesn't have any money for a birthday cake.

Sorry just sooooo angry. SD is miserable, and hates it there. BM is total POS!!!!

Anybody know anything I can do?

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Synaesthete's picture

Submitted by Synaesthete on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 12:50pm

It breaks my heart to hear about parents like that. Sad So sorry for your SD. I think contacting the probation officer would be a good start. It will probably cause some drama, but it sounds like it would be worth it to get SD out of that situation and to lessen the stress on you and DH in the long run.

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Submitted by cain8cody12 on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 1:49pm

I would contact probation officer also but I would definitely get DH's approval before doing so. It sometimes makes you wonder why god made it possible for most women to reproduce don't it?

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Submitted by overit2 on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 2:05pm

For real, ugghhh...unbelievable!!

Rags's picture

Submitted by Rags on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 2:08pm

You answered your own question. Call BMs probation officer, get the e-mail address and forward BMs self incriminating photos and get her worthless POS ass thrown in prison. That will take care of your SDs custody issues and put BM out of everyone's misery.

Get SD in front of a licensed counseler who can document and testify to SD's recounting of BMs threats of violence.

You have BM by the short and curlys. I would not hesitate to drag her around by them if I were your DH.

Best regards,