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Evil Ex wife!!

Donna Jackson's picture

Ok, I guess this is the place to vent about my husbands ex wife! Boy I hate even thinking about this woman she is so evil! I won't go into all the details other than the following,
She harrasses us constantly about money, calling our home even though the court order says emails only. She has shown our oldest son a letter I wrote to her asking for help with him. She has called CAS on several occasions as well as the police this past Christmas over the oldest which all resulted in nothing but a bother. I have become physically sick because of all of this bs. I now suffer from High blood pressure reaching 199 over 90 when she has contact with us, which is at least a couple times a month. I can't watch my youngest step sons hockey because she will walk around us and possibly aproach us to argue. I just want her out of my life period although I realize this is not possible. I am hanging on with a thread and need advice on how to stop this harrassment? My husband and I are tired of her snaching the phone from our youngest when we call only to speak of money in front of him and to tell Keith he is a lier. She black mails us, threatens legal action all the time. She bought a new Jeep and went to Ireland for 2 weeks this year and has her own house. Her income is far above my husbands and yet if he makes 50 dollars she wants her 30%. I have not worked for 2 years and my taxes last year state 537.00 for my income in 2011. I am on disability since April of this year and my emotional state is getting worse with this bs. Anyone....can you help me sort this out? My husband and I have looked into a restraining order on many occassions and we don't think this harrassment will hold up in court seeing as she is soo manipulative. She convinced my oldest step son that he wouldn't want to see his grandmother on her death bed because she thought my mother in law had tubes sticking out of her. This was not the case and my mother in law died after 2 weeks in the hospital without any contact with her grandsons. She starved and thristed to death due to a major stoke. Her veins blew and wouldn't take any intervenous! Wow short this is not anylonger. Sorry but there is so much heart ache she has caused. Please help

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Kes's picture

I think you both need to take a step back, physically and mentally, from this woman. Your CO says emails only - make sure this is adhered to. If she attempts to call you, do not speak to her at all - put the phone down, or better still, get caller display and do not answer if she rings.
Do not write her any more letters, either! You have to cut out all communication with her. If she turns up at your house, don't engage with her at all. We have had to do all of the above in the past, with the BM, and in the long term it worked - she hardly ever contacts us now, and when she does it is more often in a reasonable manner. It took me 5 years to convince my DH that if he engaged with her, she would only try to bully him, and after 5 years he realised I was right.

hereiam's picture

Two words for you. Legal action.

Harassment, contempt, whatever you can to let her show you will not put up with her crap. Let her threaten all she wants, there is only so much she can do. Child support can only be modified so often. What is she blackmailing you with?

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StickAFork's picture

You wrote a letter to BM asking for her help with the son?? That's a new one!

You can try to file for an RO, but you're right, I don't think any of this stuff meets the legal definition of harassment. I think it qualifies as "pain in the ass," though. Smile

Limit your contact with her. She calls, don't answer.
She can be out of YOUR life. Just take her off your radar. Tell your DH you don't want to hear about her. You didn't sleep with her and make babies, so you shouldn't have to deal with her.

I mean, seriously, if it's affecting you to the point you can't work (?) and live off disability (?) then I'd suggest you take back control of your life from this woman.