Adult stepson a liar and a thief
My 23year old stepson has lived with from the time he wa 14 to 21. Moved away to go to school twice, and dropped out. Went to live with sister and brother who share a house, but they got tired of him not working, so he is back with us. He was in and out of trouble with police, and he will work for a few months and quit. now has'nt worked for a year, says he can't find anything. I told my husband I didn't want him here, but he let him move back anyway(my husband believes everything he says). He stole jewelry from me, my Mom's wedding ring, a ring my parents gave me when i was young, and numerous other items of sentimental value. he also is in trouble with police again, felony charges this time. I hate him, and want him out. My husband won't make him leave, he feels sorry for him. It is costing my husband thousands of dollars for bail and lawyers. I have a 21 year old son who is willing to move out with me, he also doesn't trust his stepbrother. What is wrong with my husband that he can't see what his son is really like?
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You two have a 23 and a 21
You two have a 23 and a 21 year old living with you???
I think it's time to purge the nest all around. And your husband doesn't care that his kid is stealing your stuff and is a lunatic? Ummm, there are some major red flags going up in this whole situation.
I think parent's have a hard
I think parent's have a hard time accepting the negative (in your case the really negative) when it comes to their children. You're husband sounds like he's still trying to protect your stepson and fix all his problems. At 23 it's time for him to find out what life is about, and I agree with RainbowBright that it's time he goes. It sounds like the situation has the potential for being totally unsafe! If you and your son feel like you need to get out, give your hubby an ultimatum... no one should have to live through the problems of an adult who wont grow up.
It really sucks when you
It really sucks when you don't want to be in, or feel safe your own house.
I would beging splitting ALL
I would beging splitting ALL bills if you both work...including having your OWN savings which he couldn't touch to bail out his crappy son...If that still doesn't make him reconsider what he's doing, I would seriously talk to him and ask him to give you a date for the move out, if he doesn't move out, get out...you should NOT have to feel unsafe in your own home. By the way, if he steals from you, call the cops on him...period.