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daisy0202's picture

Well SD is going to moms once again for 2 days....OMG so EXCITED!!!! My husband and i have not had a conversation in 2 days...Everytime I start talking she is there, everytime he comes up to me she follows, I really cant, I mean if she was younger I could so see this but shes 16...seriously...Go talk on the phone, go on the computer,,,dear god DO SOMETHING!!!! I actually called him on my way home so we could talk for a bit without her....But as soon as he went in the house, there she was...My youngest, 14, I never see at night...He is always doing something...being a normal teen... and if I say anything I get "I dont like throwing her out" OK!!!!! Does anyone have this issue and if so what do you do about it?

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Newstep's picture

Good lord I know what you mean!!! SD is 12 going to be 13 next month. She does nothing on her own. When she is home with us EOW she is up our butts!!! She is in the middle of every conversation and every thing we do!!

Not the normal teenage stuff talking on the phone, hanging out with friends, watching TV nope!!

daisy0202's picture

Right her either and she has like 2 friends now because all her friends she says are drama....What I hear when she tells me she is the drama...I try to tell dad just ask her to leave the room for like 20 minutes and we will call her back when we are done.. His responce..."I cant do that"...I do my son is 14 once we needed to talk and I said give us about 20 minute sweety we need to have a private conversation he was like OK and when I called him back he was on the computer and came back an hour later....

Ex. we had company over the summer...We have a pool, a deck the whole thing...So the kids were in the pool but once they got out my children, older one was home from college, they went inside and did there own thing after they ate some snacks I put out. SD16 stayed so long that her aunt said "why dont you go inside and give the adults some time..She just ignored her...Then her father said after a hour later, now adults are drinking out here keep that in mind, so we need to watch our mouths and what we say, why dont you go watch some TV shes like you trying to get rid of me her aunts said yes give the adults some time. She sulked the rest of the night and told us later how rude it was....I just ignored it....

Newstep's picture

This is my SD12 and her dad sees nothing wrong with it. She is so used to being right up in the adults business that it is "normal" to them. Back when we both smoked she would even follow us outside while we smoked!! I put my foot down on that one. I told him either hand her a freaking cigarette or make her wait inside, she doesn't not need to be out here while we are smoking.

She pouted and acted like a whipped dog!! It made me sick later she told him that we used that time to tell secrets :jawdrop: OMG like everything we do is her freaking business. It is so frustrating....

daisy0202's picture

I dont talkl to her like that...We are kinda quick conversations and thats about it....When I try to talk to her its like Im botherinmg her. Anyway she doesnt think theres anything wrong neither does dad....I told dad when you were her age did you hang with your parents he says no...me either.....then he starts thinking but not for long....then were back to square one so I just end up giving up and doing laumdry and going to my room since I dont want to sit with her...bc its always about her...If we try to talk she interupts and makes it about her....Major issues here!!!

ownedbypedro's picture

Enjoy your two skid free days!!!

My ss 2 came to live with us when he was 14 and did the same damn thing...going so far as to answer for us if one of us spoke to the other. Dh apparently saw nothing wrong with this so I just quit talking to both of them altogether. Then of course I was a witch.

Good luck with this one...