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A "friend" wanted to know...

Cooooookies's picture

BM2 sent DH an email saying she is mailing a check for money towards SS14's school uniform. I'll believe it when I see it. DH told me that, in the email, BM2 wrote: 'a "friend" of mine would like to know why BM1 is invited to your house for parties and such but I'm not.'

BM2 knows this because she sees photos as she's friends on FB with DH's older children, SS35 and SD33...who are BM1's children. BM1 and I get along great. Whatever happened between her and DH has long ago passed. Decades ago. She never causes any problems at all. As far as I'm concerned, she's lovely and I enjoy her company.

Back to BM2's email. BM2, on the other hand, is the daughter of the devil. Sooooo DH replied to her email, thanked her for the (supposed) check and simply said 'I recall not even being allowed to my own son's Christening, let alone any parties you were having.'

Radio silence.

Karma is a b*tch BM2 and the green eyed monster is consuming you. Kinda funny. Kinda pathetic. Always entertaining.

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Acratopotes's picture

damn DH should've given her a better answer like...

Maybe because you are a bitch? Maybe because we don't want you here.....

oh I can go on the whole day lol

Cooooookies's picture

He fires back with the ugly truth. Not much she can say. I thoroughly enjoy this new bold side of DH not taking any of her b.s.

MoominMama's picture

I think my DH would have completely ignored the question. It's the only way we can deal with BM anymore. Ignoral unless he really has to.

If our BM had got a reply like your DH sent (which I don't think is at all wrong) I know it would have set her off on more toxic outburts. She always has to take things further and must always have the last word. She treats us like how dare we even say a thing. So we don't. That pisses her off even more now she can't get a reaction.

Cooooookies's picture

He's found after 5 years of ignoring her, she keeps firing the crazy his way in full force. Blasting her with little bits of bitter truths has backed her off way more than ignoring ever has. Crazy reacts in different ways I guess.

hereiam's picture

A friend wanted to know? Haha, why would a friend want to know? What a nutcase.

My DH has two ex wives, also. BM1 I have no problem with and neither does DH, BM2 is a total bitch and DH cannot stand to be around her.

Cooooookies's picture

Ahhhh so my situation isn't so rare. BM1 even help set up our food after DH and I were married. She's lovely.

Acratopotes's picture

yes she is..... and it's the same woman who went to Cypress for years and years working as the navy mattress...
then she returned..... coookies are in her way, BM2 decided she wants her man back lol.....