Sorry in advance for the length but the background is a HUGE part of this. So, I married my husband 3 years ago. His 1st wife was tragically killed in a car accident along with a middle child about 12 years ago. He had been single, dated some, until we met. He has a daughter who is college age(not biologically his, it was his 1st wifes daughter) and a bio son who was a baby at the time of the accident. I can't imagine what he must have gone through. He rarely speaks of any of it or the middle child who died. I think it's just too painful.