Can I buy SD9????
We got the weirdest phone call Friday. A strange number called my cell phone (not sure how she got my cell phone number.) It was BM's mom. She called to ask me if she could buy SD9. WTF???? The conversation went like this:
GBM- Hi completely. This is GBM, SD9 and SD11's grandma.
Me- Yes?
GBM- I was hoping I could talk to the girls.
Me- Sure, but they will have to call you back. They are at school. (It was 1 in the afternoon.)
GBM- You know, I sure miss the girls.
(Long Pause, I didn't know what to say)
GBM- BM tells me that we will be getting SD11 back soon. The court is almost guaranteed to give her back since she ran away and is threatening to do it again.
(Again, long pause)
GBM- So I was wondering, how much money would it take for you to let SD9 come back. Tell DH that I will pay any amount if you send her back to us where she belongs. I will pay in cash. She can't be away from SD11.
Me- There is no guarantee what is going to happen to SD11. And, the answer for SD9 is absolutely not. She is doing well here. She is happy and thriving. You can't buy her back. Please don't call me again about this.
GBM- I'm just trying to do what's best for her.
Me- DH will be the judge of what is best for SD9. I have to go. If you need to talk to someone, please call the house number and talk to DH.
At this point, I hung up. But, I can't believe she actually wanted DH to sell SD9. I guess they have their hearts set on winning this case with SD11. I know they are hoping to get SD9 back, but she seems very happy here. DH and I are both afraid what BM is going to try and force SD9 to say when she visits for Thanksgiving next week. SD9 is very shy. I am afraid she will say whatever BM asks so she doesn't get in trouble. I figure there will be more false allegations made next week.
And as an update to SD11, she and DH left to go to BM's home state for her emergency custody hearing. He told me that she is behaving like a perfect angel. DH is having a hard time with the act, considering what she put us through. But, she did tell him that if he forces her back, she will run away again. So tired of this drama. The hearing is Tuesday so I guess we will know then.
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I don't know what the courts
I don't know what the courts are going to do. SD11 ran away once. It was a huge scare. SD9 is doing so well here. They had good reason to take the girls from BM. I don't know if I can see them sending either one of them back to her. I will not willingly send her back to BM. But, if a court orders us too, I don't know what we will do. SD9 has said that she doesn't want to go back. DH plans to tell the judge about how much bullying SD11 has done to SD9, including threatening to smother her in her sleep. We are hoping the judge will order SD11 into a program where she can get some intensive counseling. Ultimately, we will have to abide by the judge's wishes.
Yeah, that is true. If she
Yeah, that is true. If she had called the house phone, it would have been recorded. All calls into our house phone are recorded. And, you are alerted to that fact when you call in. That is probably why she called my cell phone.