Many will say that its black and white. You knew what you were getting into. You accept this or you dont. Its your problem, deal with it.
These are people who have never had to deal with this situation. Or it comes from the father of the child that you loathe so much. Nobody understands.
People have to hide how they feel, bitch to their friends about how they truly feel when all you want to do is scream out loud how you wish that child never existed and that your idiot SO should have kept it in his pants instead of firin into some munt, litreally desperation on his part.