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Thriller : Must history repeat itself ?

Caroline2b1211's picture

This blog post will be a little different from the older as i will tell the story of SO dysfunctional family.

 

Many many years ago, when MIL divorced, she decided to leave her children to their grand parents (her own parents) and to focus on her niece. 

 

This little girl lived with her mother (MIL sister) and her stepfater. This man had a good career and MIL was deeply jealous of the couple. 

When the couple had a baby, problems began. The niece was pushed by MIL to lie about bad treatment. 

Things got worst when the niece false accused the stepfather of physical abuses. 

She got the support of MIL and grand parents. Police, judge... and prison for the man : 10 years for an innocent. 

 

MIL’s sister lost her legal parental authority with her oldest daughter (the false victim) as she defended her husband. 

She left far away with her second daughter and waited 10 years the release of her husband. 

They now live a « normal » life, the second daughter is graduated, has a good job and do well.

By contrary, the first daughter failed in everything, has no qualification and lives as an adult at grand parents home.

 

That’s the horrible thriller story of my SO family. 

 

And now.... the story starts to repeat itself. 

SO and i had a baby.. SS starts to feel uncomfortable with the situation and MIL starts to deals with SS behaviour the same way she did with her niece.

The goal in her dysfunctional mind is to protect SS from us. But he should be protected from HER. 

 

BM does nothing, and i start to feel anxious about my future.

I don’t want to follow the tragical destiny of niece stepfather. 

I must protect myself and my son from them. That my #1 priority. 

 

 

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CLove's picture

check out some different recording options. Do not be alone with kiddo, like ever.  If you are get ready to record on device.

Start preparing now.

Stepdrama2020's picture

Jaw drop

Caroline2b1211's picture

Thanks all for answer.

I started to think about videorecording in all the house (except his bedroom where i will never go when he is here). 
This situation breaks my heart, i'm really sorry for him to be put in this situation by evil and jealous grandmother. 
With BM complicity because the thinks it's really funny and doesn't realise how hurtfull the situation could be for SS either. 

I'm really sorry to realise our relationship will be reduced by videorecording and suspicions. 
I'm sorry to see him as a danger but that what he is for now, a real danger that could break my family at anytime... 

Don't want to have the same destiny. I'm an honest person, from a normal family and i'm freakin'out.

Same things for my parent who are really close to us. They freak out about that situation and don't want SS in their house anymore. (We used to spend holidays alltogether)

 

Caroline2b1211's picture

Good question..

I guess for now it's not the plan as BM let SS goes to MIL everytimes he wants on her days.

Plus, she is not jealous of BM 

Winterglow's picture

She isn't jealous of bm because she has her completely under her thumb.