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carolina's picture

Hi there !
I need some advice/opinions about this:
first of all I always feel I have to secretly check my DH cellphone just to see how many times the skids called him;now I know for a fact that BM uses the skids cellphones (so that their number appears on the caller-id and not hers 'cause my DH knows that I get mad if I see her number;he might even have told her)to call or talk to my DH. There's never anything really serious going on with the skids so why does she have to call so may times? Last weekend my DH couldn't find his cell;when I found it it had 51...yes 51 in 2 days !! missed-calls in total from the skids and BM !! they know that it was DH's payday (he gets paid bi-weekly)he also says that its just his kids calling everyday.I just don't know if I should believe him or not HELP !!what would you do ??

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sparky's picture

Those people are calling 25 times per day. I would lose the cp on payday. Only you can know if he is trustworthy and even if it is BM it does not mean anything thats why they are divorced.

stepmom2one's picture

IMO. We talk to BM maybe 2x a month, if that. The least amount of contact the better.

tryingtokeepthesanity's picture

My BM has a habit of changing cell phone carriers and changes her number all the time. We just got a new one today. We have established that we don't answer the cell phone when its a number we don't recogonize or private.

She has bad credit so I don't see how she keeps getting new numbers.

She used to use the kids cell phones to call as well....the good one is that she bought SS14 one (he already had one with us) and then didn't let him bring it to our house. Hello?? He only sees her EOW and one day a week. SS14 makes the excuses as the day is long....she really needs it more than I do.......lol